By : Edo Setiawan
In the world, we can’t know what is the someone’s feeling to us. Their paradigm and opinion about us. We need to know all the people in the world have different opinions and paradigm, even our mother or father, we have different the way of thinking, opinion, or paradigm. The paradigm is the pattern of someone’s feeling about other people. The paradigm is one perspective on themselves and their environment that will influence the way to thinking.
Sometimes, people and society have an opinion if someone’s paradigm, it cannot be change and it’s so difficult if we want to changed about other people. If someone has a bad reputation so he/she will get a bad treatment, just like bullying even mocking from his/her society and if that person wants to change other’s people paradigm, want to say if he/she has been better it will difficult because society has judged, he/she a bad person and will give a bad influences of other people. But Inversly, if someone has a good reputation of the society, that person will get a good treatment as well because society trust if he/she is a good person.
So, It’s better for us to make other paradigm about us is good. Actually, it’s simple, It can be started from doing the right things in the society and the environment in the polite way. Just like respect for the old people. Show a polite attitude if we meet with another person or not scream when we talk to other person even that a person younger rather than us. Beside that, from the smile also we can change our paradigm about us.
There are three words that can change someone feeling and the important one is their paradigm about us.
That’s words are :
1. Thank you.
3. Excuse me.
-Just try and you will know the power of that word-